I realised one thing a few days ago. That i actually never stopped liking this one person. I denied the fact for more than a year now for a specific reason, and now i have to admit that i really like this person. The day he asked me something, and the times when we talked about a thing..it suddenly hit me that, i actually like him..
i like him because he is mature, responsible, trusting, caring, kind, brotherly,full of sense of humor but not a crackhead-in short, dependable, reliable, calm and never busybodied about other people, hardly make personal comment, he knows what he wants,never judge people yet firm and has his own standard. He is not handsome, but handsome was never in my list of characters..so he passed.
Thinking positively now, i met quite a number of people who were matured, dependable, reliable, responsible, serious and driven, and i feel really attracted to these quality. the qualities made them irresistable and attractive in my eyes..
i wouldnt mind being married to one of them:o)
If i ever lost one person with these quality, i would cry blood. But let say, you lost someone who is handsome but does not possess any of the qualities, is it worthy of tears?DEFINITELY A WASTE OF TIME!:o)
Positively again, the reason why we are not with a particular person, was simply because it wasnt meant to be. maybe you are far too good for him.and he was not the right person anyway..Now, shouldnt blame ourselves if he left because he is clueless, should we..DEFINITELY NO:o)
Everything will work out just fine.InsyaAllah
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