Choices

Thoughtful mode...... My brother once asked me-which one come first.making a choice or getting what you want.i answered readily-of course getting what we want..he answered me-no,we have to choose first because seldom we will get what we want.often we have to choose from available options.it was a revelation for me.there and then i realised that i have never,once,in my life,having to choose from available options.i usually get what i want..so i answered that i dont know how it feels to have to make a choice.a simple discussion that led me to reflect my life.....my cousin is a very average guy.he didnt quite finish school,he do all menial jobs and always is the subject of ridicule in their family.but he is kind hearted,he treats his parents good,generous,diligence and full of sense of humor.all of a sudden,he met with this girl who works as a teacher-and this girl proposed to him..i dont know much about this girl,as we havent meet yet.but i think both of them get the best of each other..and me,i have always been among the lucky one.i usually get the best out of life-everything is going on perfectly-with no reason to complain.but when it comes to relationship,i almost always get mixed up with wrong people,which always ended up in lots of misery than necessary...so,my point is there are people who do not always get what they want,but they get the best thing eventually.while some who always get what they want,would lost the one thing that they want the most..thank you Allah for making see the justice in every event of my life.there's no reason to mourn over a thing/person that you dont get when you are already blessed with so many other wonderful things in life. God alone knows what's in store for you in the future..if you dont get the one thing that you want the most,then you must make a conscious decision to choose a path to go..so that you can choose the best from the available options. Thank you Allah for making me see wisdoms in everywhere i turn..