My problem is in my inability to stand constant whining and complaining about everything. after awhile of whining and complaining, it becomes very tiresome and irritating. It is the cheapest way to get attention. Either you do it, or you stand up and do things for yourself or just shut up about it. Hearing people complains almost about everything he has gone through in a day is damned boring, and annoying. Especially, if he started to feel pity about himself, and started to act like a victim. damned it. tiring!
The thing is, we have already had enough on our plate for a day to add on and be told about what's wrong with life, followed with what to do, what you have to do, what made you miserable or that you are damned busy with everything as if other people just sit around eating ice cream. Come on, have a little faith in the world which god has created for us all to try living!
Im trying to be sympathetic here, but after awhile trying, and the person at the end is too damned stubborn to listen to reasons..
i am trying to be in my best manner, trying to be supportive, trying to give the other person an excuse for that annoying attitude but, i can't hold out for self pity. So i keep to myself, stay mum, and stay away. For my own peace of mind.
I just can't win!
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