Of Broken Hearted

"From the bottom of my broken heart, there is a thing or two i'd like you to know.."

Who wouldn't remember the feeling of being in the dump, mopping and be melancholy about most things? All those sleepless nights, the uneaten food, the suffering of having to go through endless hours of grieving? Yet, still have to smile in order to please all those people who wouldnt, couldnt and didnt have any idea at all how torn apart the heart was? Nobody plans to be in the agony of loving and losing something.

When a friend shared how broken hearted she is, i can only listen sympathetically. I know how hurt you can get, how downhearted and how the pain was killing you inside.
i could not just disregard her feeling, i couldnt just said please get well soon. Because it is not a physical disease, but a psychological one-where it influences all your other bodily function. it is real tough when it comes to emotion.

The Mechanism of coping with broken hearted differed from one person to another.

There's not any suitable advice to a broken hearted person. No matter what you said, she couldn't register it.

I was sorry for her, but there is no use to postpone the grieving forever. You have the choice to be happy or be miserable. Wiser because of experience, i was thankful. Sad feeling makes me appreciate happy times i have with people who appreciate my friendship, who was there for me when i was in the dump. I was thankful for the experience. Very very thankful indeed. For the friends that come and always there, when i am happy and sad, and for those who give new meaning to my now much happier and fulfilling life. I understand her feeling and would never disregard how it feel. But, i would rather be happy and be thankful that Allah destined these people to be in my path so i learned to put my trust carefully. I pay a very expensive price for my happiness but i get something better in return:o)

Though, sometimes memories are coming without warning, but they are just memory-they cannot harm you unless you allow them to.

Anything i said would be cliche.I chose to listen without further judgment because i knew how it felt when nobody wants to listen to your sadness.

Ya Allah, i pray for your Mercy to protect me from bad feelings, to guide me to see the good things in life, and to guide me in my decision, Without Your Mercy, Lord, I will not be able to stand through anything. Amin