sense of humor

how important that is in our daily dwelling-without which life would be a terrible, unbearable and distressful journey.
Sense of humor is an essential ingredient of life.you cant possibly go through everything without having some semblance of humor in your mind.
and when i said humor, it is not necessarily means laughing like mad.it is a way of perceiving things.How you look at things without being overly obsessed by it,or overly serious about it, or negative etc.it helps you see the other side of the coin, and to always believe that there are always options available for everything. To think that there is something worthwhile about everything. To think that sadness is not just sadness but probably a blessing in disguise.It helps lighten the burden of mind.Many people think that sense of humor is making fun of something.
but we should not confused sense of humour with being humorous.it's different thing altogether.
when it is humorous, we laugh.But when we have sense of humor, when we think life is suck, we thank God that we'r living at all.Or when it is raining and we forgot to bring the umbrella, instead of cursing God and the rain, we simply enjoyed it.
Or when your bestmate said that you are his closest friend, and the next minutes he was acting as if you are a stranger he met somewhere around and forgot..instead of regretting everything, you simply moved on and think that probably it is for the better.and he might not be the friend/companion you are looking for.
Sense of humor is being able to realise all the good things in your life-noticing that people are helpful at the least expected time, noticing that when you feel out of place there are people who come to your side, saying nice things, and offering support.
Sense of humor is being able to appreciate the difference in people and being able to accept the difference.
Sense of humor is being able to smile at the mistake you made, and not killing yourself with self-degrading talks.
Sense of humor is believing that the source of all good is God-and that nothing is mightier than HIM.
Sense of humor is believing in yourself-that no matter what, you are who you are-worthy of yourself and those people who matter.
Sense of humor is being able to forgive yourself for whatever that happens in your life-be it in the past or present.
Sense of humor is being thankful for everything that has happened, for it made you who you are. and everyone for they help you to push your own limits,to be better next time around.